Any woman I’ve ever really cared for (and showed priority towards) didn’t settle for behavior that wasn’t what she wanted.
She didn’t put up with behavior that didn’t work for her – namely, if I left her hanging, I could be sure she’d make other plans.
Bottom line: Don’t accept or ignore behavior that you don’t want…
but realize that “not accepting” behavior doesn’t mean fighting the other person. Showing the guy that you’re not going to wait around for him if he disappears demonstrates a lot of good things about you: you have your own life, you have options and your world doesn’t revolve around him.
At this point, rather than calling him out when he doesn’t respond, you would be far more effective if you make other plans when this happens.
DON’T wait on him because people tend to fall into a routine with other people based on past behavior.
” Quiz and see what his texting habits mean about your relationship.
Whether it’s his texting habits, the way he talks to you or the ways he shows (or doesn’t show) his affection for you, you don’t want to be chasing his affection.
and that being a challenge is somehow inherently attractive to guys…
A guy wants a woman like this because he knows that you can take care of yourself and you won’t drag him down with neediness.
This is an example of not accepting behavior that you don’t want conflict.
This is not the energy that attracted the guy in the first place – chances are that when he met you, you were happy, carefree and having fun.
That’s a much better way to be it’s far more attractive to the guy as well.