So needless to say we ended it a very long time ago and and he basically disappeared. I was with BD for over a year before I got pregnant and that was horrible. But I got pregnant 2 weeks after DH and I met (with our first, we were together for 2 years when I got pregnant with the last baby). We are now expecting our second child together my third baby though. But he is deployed right now and it sucks since I'm pregnant. Then we finally got together & made it official & i got pregnant about 2 months later. It probably would of been a whole lot easier had we of known more about each other before we had a baby.
This isn't exactly the same but I was pregnant when I met SO and we are still together 1 and a half years later and expecting another baby. He knew I was pregnant and has taken on the "daddy" role and has since little man was born. We are happily married now and plan to stay that way forever. Especially since we were/are still young (I was 19 and he was 23), but I wouldn't change it for anything.
But, I really want to marry her because of the pregnancy.
I do love her, but I think it's too soon to know if I'm in-love with her.
Of course it looks like the right thing to do but I'm not so sure if that enough . I'm going to wait and learn more about the water before I dive right in and drown. Secondly, if she has a tendency to cheat, how do you know this baby is yours, especially if she's 2 months along and you started 3 months ago, she may have had someone on the side. She may be using you as the "father" because she may not know who the father really is.
No matter how much your family or her pressue you to get married, DON'T!!
I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and got pregnant.
I also think marriage is the best thing for me to do since she is pregnant, but I feel like I'm still in the honeymoon phase and I don't feel like I know her true self yet or that I love her for who she really is.
YOU DON'T KNOW WHO THIS GIRL IS IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS STUCK IN HER TEENAGE YEARS AND NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN I THINK YOU NEED TO TAKE THE TIME TO TALK IT OVER WITH HER AND GET TO KNOW HER.
BECAUSE YOU MIGHT END UP GETTING MARRIED HATING WHO SHE REALLY IS AN MAY HAVE TO BE IN A MISERABLE RELATIONSHIP AN STAY IN IT CUZ THAT'S WHAT YOU "THINK" YOU SHOULD DO. THEN YOU'LL GET A DIVORCE AN THAT CAUSES A LOT OF COURT AN PAPERWRK AN MONEY!
:/"Doing the right thing" was established mostly to 1.) save kids from being **** & 2.) Restore some honor to the mother.
She already has a **** from another relationship and probably doesn't have much honor because of that.