If you just started online dating, or perhaps you’re a veteran, there are a few important questions to ask your potential date so you can more easily determine if he or she is a suitable match for you.
Below find a list of Dating with Dignity’s top five questions you should ask an online date.
Don’t choose a picture where you are not the main focal point.
Her advice however, can help you no matter your age! Sometimes they know you better than you know yourself.
Sharing (a la “Ready for Love”) about a bodily function oops is never sexy. It’s an opportunity to laugh together, show your confidence, and nothing more. let’s just say it might be slightly more difficult for you two to find common interests: not impossible, just less likely! Also they’ll have to tell you if it was your photos, your wit, or some combination of both.
It’s a great question also to see if your suitor is comfortable giving and receiving compliments! If she or he has a hard time with that, it could be an indication that the person may not truly be ready to let someone in.
Sprinkle them over a few notes back and forth, and try to make them flow organically. Better yet, try to take it offline as quickly as possible so you can move away from being penpals and move into live “data-dating,” in which you’re collecting data about your potential partner while having FUN. Possible answers to this question include “I’m just looking to have fun, and if I meet the right woman then I would be open to a relationship,” “I’m looking for ‘the one,’” or “I’m open to the possibilities of a long-term relationship, but I’m sort of looking for something casual right now.” Most people online are fairly honest in their intention.
We do believe that while the best way to get to know if you share values as well as chemistry is to observe whether a person’s actions match their words in real life; however, as a precursor, use this list to discover if that “future special someone” you just met online is the real thing. Based on their answer, you can evaluate if what they’re looking for matches what YOU are looking for. And if it doesn’t, someone else is right around the corner. This one will help you determine if your online date has a sense of humor! These interactions will DEFINITELY affect your potential future together, so it’s a great thing to know about ahead of time! Don’t ask things like, “When did your last relationship end and why?