Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. I will simply look for someone who is more worthy of me and my time, keep my ex. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... If her ex gets the kids for the week or the weekend, she has no choice but to abide by the visitation rights. You seem to have more questions than answers and you attempt to convince us you are worried about the future and where you'll stand where his children are concerned. If you have any self respect and know your worth you will leave him.
It can be very difficult to be comfortable dropping your kids off for their visitation when you know they are going to be exposed to someone you percieve as a bad influence on your kids. Yet you go on to say he's worth all the toil and trouble. In all honesty and fairness do him, his children and you a favour... You can be hotter then the sun, girl, but you saying it over and over again leads me to believe you are quite ugly and possible really insecure, if anything, on the inside. Obviously the kids are with their dad ALL WEEK and they like him more because he's the father/mother doing EVERYTHING from bathing to feeding to doing homework. I wanted to see ppl's opinion & advice & how they think & why the new gf is all to hate. And because their full time father loves me, they love me more. But sadly along with the kids is BAGGAGE that is always hanging around. Where she's depressed & on meds & has anger issues & yells at the kids when they do anything wrong. Is this what the life of the step-mom would be like. Tommorow it will be regarding why the the kids shoes are dirty. You gotta add a lil something to get response on the form.Ensure you both know what really is important to each other and maintain that.Intimacy, communication and good ways to resolve conflict are all factors which make a difference.