Talk about a book you’re reading (you might even read one together), your interests, your faith, things going on in your life.
Talk about your values and priorities, ambitions and plans you may have, your families and things that are happening in your church or in the world.
She said I’m free to pursue her, but she also said that she enjoys the friendship we have now.
So now I’m perplexed by this “gray area.” How long do I pursue her before we have another discussion about what this is?
My suggestion to you, obviously based only on what you’ve included in your question, is to step up again and seek more clarity.
Rather than proceeding in the “welcome to pursue me” gray area, I would suggest another conversation soon in which you clarify that what you meant by “pursuing” this woman is to start a dating relationship to see whether marriage might be the right thing for the two of you.
Apparently, Gigi's the one who's not entirely ready to jump back into a relationship.
More specifically, it sounds from your question like you were seeking to initiate a dating relationship, but her response didn’t quite sound like a “yes” to that. Last week I stuck myself out there and told her my intentions to pursue her with the goal of eventual marriage.She said she has a habit of getting involved too quickly with guys.Gigi Hadid and Zayn Malik called it quits less than two months ago.But after being spotted making out in New York City this weekend, rumors of a reconciliation have been swirling.