It would be infinitely naive to think that a Filipina girl who is 15 to 30 years younger than you would consider it equitable if you are unable to provide either stability or an improvement in lifestyle. Most of them are uneducated women who do those type of things. She dated men thinking that her beauty nails and looks will last. You may not believe this: But she would only ever have sex in one position only, would only do it once a night, and never in over 40 years gave me oral sex, even though I always did it for her. She used to quite embarrass me with what she said and her eagerness to “eat me all up” as she put it.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not painting all Filipina girls out to be gold diggers. Her family will need a little assistance now and then. I am educated,and I tried very hard to help her out to become like me (business minded). She was a lover beyond my wildest dreams, and in return I did the very best I could for her.
There is no better career available to a young girl than to hook a foreigner man.
If you are barely making ends meet as-is, you have no business looking for a Filipina girl – it will not end well. All we ever wanted to do, was marry for ever, and have lots of children. Parents of course, as I have said in my other postings. She told me one night, that when we were married, even if I beat her, she would still always be my wife.
Many girls do not have access to computers and regular internet connections. The girls end up they wouldn’t have otherwise found. On one such occasion, a Canadian arrived and we all went out to a nearby island. It was a pleasant day at the beach, and then we all headed back. Many Filipino families would be thrilled to pawn off their 15 year old daughter to speed up her becoming the goose that lays golden eggs.
They often will have some older woman pretend to be them in contacting foreigners on their behalf. They appreciate the situation, and don’t mind losing half the money their man sends. They keep this a secret of course, because their man might not approve. On the boat ride out to the island, the girl and her foreigner were cuddling. A few weeks later I heard of an issue they were having. I’m aware of many instances of underage girls looking for guys.
The guy wanted to send her money, but she couldn’t pick it up from Western Union. It is a common enough occurrence to warrant being extra careful if a girl’s profile says “18”.
They were trying to figure out another family member who could receive the money. The answer: they will only give money if you are 18 or over. In addition, think of how silly you would feel if you visited a girl, went back home and started processing paperwork to bring her home, and at the last moment it all falls apart because she lied about her age.