to a guy who doesn't understand what women are really saying when they say "Just be yourself." You have to be "you," but you also have to be the best version of you that you can show.
Here's something you might not know: If you try to be someone you're not by borrowing someone else's stories or showing off a lifestyle you haven't experienced, to every person you meet.
But I'll bet you've figured this out on your own, haven't you?
I'd use an opener I learned from someone, and when I walked over and used it to start a conversation, I would sound like some phony B-movie actor delivering a bad line. One girl even stopped in the middle of taking a sip from her drink, squinted at me, and said, "Did you just try that with all the other girls in here?
No technique in the world create this strength of foundation you'll get from complete self-confidence.
For the longest time, I've wondered "What is it that makes certain guys REALLY successful with women?
These girls are only there to have fun and going to be spending her time at the clubs every night.
So rather than using a shotgun to catch them - blast buckshot everywhere and hope to hit someone that might be interesting - I found a way to turn my game into a SNIPER RIFLE and catch my target every time.