Odds are good that your email got lost in the churn of every other guy out there who was trying to get her attention as well…and suffered the same fate as all the others, consigned to the digital garbage bin.This also means that you need to have an attention-getting subject line to your messages. If she talks about sports, mention sports in the title.The most common subject line that women receive is a variation on “Hello”: Hey, Hi, ‘sup, Yo, how YOU doin’, etc. If you two have a mutual interest in books, put that in the subject! I’ve always had good responses from “Pirates are inherently better than Ninjas” or “Zombies are superior to Vampires”.Some dating sites will let you post your profile for free, but have to pay extra to actually send messages. Online dating is a seller’s market when it comes to women; they’re going to have , especially if there’s a suggestion that she’s looking for sex.These sorts of accounts will have unsubtle clues as to how to reach them elsewhere… When you’re constantly being deluged by strangers wanting to get to know you naked, you’re likely to start paying less and less attention to the actual content of the email.You can be as picky as you like, using various search functions and filters to ensure that you find that 5’9″ tall blonde Farsi speaking Zoroastrian of your dreams.
Most dating sites allow you to add “Active Within $TIME” to any search string.Of course, there’s nothing quite so frustrating when you put all of that effort into your profile and start sending out all of those messages… In fact, that’s the reason why so many men quit online dating entirely; who wants to expend all of that emotional energy only to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts by that empty inbox every time you log in? Well, to mangle an old saying: once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three times means you’re doing something wrong. It looks for all the world like a normal account, but the person who owns it hasn’t logged on in over three months… Sending messages, winks, pokes, flowers or other signs of interest is the digital equivalent to ringing the doorbell of an abandoned house. Zombie profiles litter their account – something that many dating sites make as difficult as possible in order to artificially inflate their numbers.They may have set up the profile on a lark and forgot about it after moving on when some other social network caught their attention.After all, why bother when 99% of them are troglodytes who think that “Yo bitch” is a proper way to start an email or make the immediate leap to “I can’t wate to eat ur puzzy” are appropriate ways to approach a woman you don’t know.Hell, many of my female friends will delete emails – without reading them – based solely on the because of the sheer volume of mail they receive.