): After being a dating coach for more than 5 years I've found some things that have worked for me and my fellow expats in Asia. In fact this might be common sense, but you know what they say: common sense ain't so common.;-)Rest assured that you control the evening, and that's because you control this: This is one of the most important first date tips.In fact you can turn your fifty first dates into one once you know what to do.Believe me when I say that if you're the first foreigner she's been out with - she's very nervous.Shyness can keep you from sampling some of life’s most delicious offerings.Worrying about outside perceptions and interactions often hinders your social interactions and your options when it comes to the love department.
The Filipina beauties dominating international beauty pageants only show that they are beauty and brain. Those women whom you see in beauty pageants represent the Filipinas. So, don’t wonder if foreign men travel the world only to find a Filipina bride.Make your communicating with her easier and get a better idea of what Asian women want from men. Not only wasn't it fun but I had to do all the work to get our first date conversations happen Make life easier on the both of you by: • speaking in 'easy English' • using the right props • being patient (yes its tough but you gotta do this)So if you know where to take her and you can communicate with her - what's the last piece? The BIGGEST mistake guys make when dating an Asian woman (or any woman for that matter) is to play it safe.The second biggest mistake is to take the whole thing too seriously.Maybe when she's ready to settle down and get married perhaps I would have had a chance. From there you take her to places that will make it happen.So besides taking her to the right place on your first meet-up - what else can you do? Is that reason enough to not go talk with her when you meet? When I went to Japan I spent an evening with a Japanese woman who didn't speak English.