Despite my extensive dating history, this had never happened to me before. So common, in fact, there’s a whole chapter devoted to it in by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. (No wonder I didn’t know how to handle him – I’d never dated a ‘Mr Quality Casual’ before.) Basically he’s a guy who does almost everything right – except he’s looking to keep things somewhat casual. Now, you can stop investing in this going-nowhere relationship and refocus your energies on finding someone who’s on a similar life trajectory. Anyway, MDM (Mr Disappearing Man) and I had something really good going, or so I thought. We were the same age and from a similar background, had loads in common, got along famously, had great chemistry, and seemed to want the same things in life. I won’t bore you with the details but, long story short, out of no where, he disappeared on me. Besides, there was no excuse for his decision to end things via radio silence. It wasn’t long before Marni had my email address and, over three days, I received the three 35min videos. What could she possibly tell me that I didn’t already know? At the time, I decided to put it down to only being two months in, but my gut knew better. When someone is not responding to you, the absolute worst thing you can do is bombard them with your own messages.Source: Shutter Stock However, it's totally acceptable to reach out to him once or twice to say what's up.
If he avoids you or acts weird, you'll know something is up.
That means no phone calls, no dates, in some cases no emails, absolutely no Facebook, no Skype, and noooooo Snap Chat. Love has to last the test of time solely using strategies from the 1800’s namely: letters, the pony express, and wishing on star constellations that someone hasn’t forgotten you exist.
This is something that doesn’t come easy to the tech savvy young and in love.
If he hasn't responded to your text in 3 days or he said he would call and never did, shoot him a simple and casual text saying something like, "Hey, what's up?
" If you don't get a response a second time, I would personally drop it.