Live in that ongoing relationship and you’ll find a freedom that religion can never bring.
Human behavior includes planning, choosing and executing specific behaviors for a purpose -- whether they are short term to satiate an immediate need, such as eating, or long-term, as in selecting a mate.
It can only be solved by walking with ongoing guidance from the Holy Spirit.
By Ellen Fein & Sherrie Schneider Book Review by William A. 5, 2004 Basically, all of human evolutionary psychology boils down to how we, as humans, solve the every day problem/s of how to pass our genes into the next generation.
I'm not going to go into depth about brain architecture here because of the length required, but the sex urge is similar in nature to static electricity.(For those interested, to quote Helen Fisher above, "The sex drive is regulated, in large part, by the preoptic area of the anterior hypothalamus, which is one source of gonadotropin-relesing hormone Gn RH". Nature's machinery has designed the sexual urge to build up like a static charge in order to be discharged when needed or at intermediate intervals when chosen by the human mind.
This charge, of course, is strongest in humans during the peak mating years (from 18-35); this "charge" is particularly stronger in males because they have less to invest in the reproductive process - it is also why females are more "picky," because the investment is so great.