Listen to him about what went wrong in his marriage and what he expects to be different the next time around.Be willing to work on yourself if he needs something from you.Going through a divorce is a traumatic time emotionally.He is likely to be on a roller coaster of emotions and needs someone to listen to him.Every other week, they would hand-off the dog like it was a small child, during which she and I would make polite but totally forced small talk in the apartment they once shared together. If there are actual kids involved in this former union, well that's an entire — and far more complex —story.One of the best things about dating someone who is divorced, is there are far less games. Overall, you won't ever be guessing how this person feels or where you stand, because this will almost always be forthcoming information.
Ask him about his expectations for your relationship and what he expects from you.You may have to wait longer to meet his children, family and friends.If he means enough to you to have a relationship with him, you have to be willing to wait until he is comfortable.Odds are this person knows exactly what he or she is looking for in a relationship, and will be very honest about it. Remember: They don't want to waste their time either.We're not just talking about sex, but oh wow is this a major perk.