Maybe you're even thinking seriously about finding yourself a strapping young stud, wondering if you still have the right stuff.
Or perhaps (more likely) you're just fantasizing about what you'd need to do if you ever decided you wanted to try out the Mrs. The bad news: There's more to becoming a cougar than hanging out a "sex wanted" sign.
And if all this advice about your potential cougar adventures makes you want to settle back with your same old guy — or a bag of chocolate kisses and a Jake Gyllenhaal movie — then you can take comfort in knowing how much you're going to save on lingerie.
I dated quite a few younger men in my 40s (I just turned 50).
Men tend to sexually peak at a young age, while women peak in their 30s-40s.If your mother's comment on your outfit would have been that you look like you're asking for it, then you're dressed exactly right. Today's guys have come to expect that women will be outfitted in such exotica as pushup bras, garter belts and (ouch) thongs.(Never mind that you may not look as great as you might have in your glory days.) Pay Attention to What They Don't See. They'll also expect that you'll be waxing salon smooth: underarms, legs, even places that rarely see the light of day. Just because he's young enough to be your son doesn't mean you have to act like Mom.And when I say “dated,” I do mean that these relationships went well beyond the stereotypical one-night-stand “boytoy” liaison.My first younger man experience was with an adorable 23-year-old I met not long after I turned 40. Thankfully, it’s becoming more acceptable for older women to date (not just hook up with) younger men.