And yet, most guys walk all over a nice girl when they fall in love with one. Some girls I’ve pursued harder and some girls I’ve never given a damn about *even though they were absolute stunners!
* [Read: 20 reasons why a guy may never really like you back] If what most people say were to be true, that guys fall for only a girl’s appearance all the time, then every single good looking girl in the world must be experiencing the best relationship in the world, wouldn’t you say? There are so many great looking girls who are bitter in love and are walked over by guys all the time. The dating code for girls To have the best relationships of your life, you need to understand these dating girl codes.
Guys may claim they hate girls who can’t commit within the first three dates. [Read: How to make a guy chase you the right way] #2 Don’t fall for the test.
But the only girls guys actually desire and fall for madly are the ones who leave men hanging without any reassurances. If a nice guy has a huge crush on you and follows you like a lapdog everywhere you go, wouldn’t you treat him carelessly compared to another guy who flirts with you, but doesn’t try hard to please you? At the beginning of a relationship, the guy you date will test the waters. When you start dating a guy, even though you feel like you’ve fallen madly in love with him, don’t say it out just yet.
Unless you’re in a serious relationship where there’s a lot of mutual love and trust, avoid talking about the future together with the guy you’re dating.
When you’re in a new relationship, always leave the man guessing about where the relationship is heading. There are a few girls who want the guy to name the relationship within a few weeks of dating. Communication and understanding each other completely is very important for a successful relationship.
Most nice girls try really hard to please a guy, and go all the way from calling him over and cooking him a four course meal to spending all weekend shopping for his clothes. By letting a guy you’ve been dating for a month know that you miss him or need him in your life, you’re letting him see that his hook’s caught deep in your heart.
Don’t bend over backwards and try to please him within the first few dates. Block yourself emotionally to him so you seem harder to read, which makes you harder to impress, which then makes you a lot more desirable and attractive. That’s his cue to sit back and take it easy, so he can watch you do all the hard work now.
Just like guys have the code of chivalry to impress women, girls too need to understand this dating code to impress a guy and experience better relationships.
It’ll help you understand a guy’s mind better, and make him fall harder for you. If all other guys think a girl is attractive, he’ll think she’s attractive too.
[Read: How to impress a guy in 13 oh-so-awesome ways! [Read: How to make a guy like you by making him and other guys want you] But then again, a girl’s appearances may give her a second glance, and her attractiveness may draw a guy to her for a date or two.
He may avoid calling you for a couple of days or he may ask for favors *sometimes sexual* just to see how compromising and accommodating you are. If you don’t like doing something or don’t want to do something, stand your ground. Pretend like you’re old fashioned and wait for him to say that he loves you first.
If a guy knows you’re madly in love with him even before he’s fallen for you, he’ll always take you for granted, even if he doesn’t realize it himself! He’s created that way by you and the way you behave around him. Don’t stop talking to a guy who’s flirting with you, or don’t stop talking to an ex just because the guy you’re dating says so.